tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-257209375427878024.post27385586151551186..comments2023-11-11T00:44:20.900-08:00Comments on Bella's Blessings: October 21: The Day AfterBella's Blessingshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09372603162401786615noreply@blogger.comBlogger35125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-257209375427878024.post-17062499407147622552010-10-23T11:26:18.832-07:002010-10-23T11:26:18.832-07:00It was a beautiful memorial! Tim - words you wrote...It was a beautiful memorial! Tim - words you wrote about your wife are beyond wonderful! I knew her many years ago - we worked on many projects together and she is a true professional! Now I have the priviledge to work for her! I have been blessed in that respect.<br /><br />Another truth the bittersweet of having to leave this place you grew to love and the people you've grown to love. Leaving friends and a place you have grown to love is never easy (even under the best of reasons), but this time will be even harder. Praying for comfort for all of you on your continued journey with sweet Bella watching over you!<br /><br />TinaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-257209375427878024.post-84729422992825518482010-10-22T22:46:56.177-07:002010-10-22T22:46:56.177-07:00Indeed. You & Ang left not ONE stone unturned-...Indeed. You & Ang left not ONE stone unturned- you went to the corners of the Earth for Bella and gave her every ounce of you and more, physically, emotionally, as her advocate, her parents, her photographer, her care taker, her entertainment, her stylist (she was so well dressed!!) and so on- knowing this has brought the biggest smile to my face. I pray that this has/will allow peace to seep into your hearts and bring a smile to your face. Another thought that followed with a giant smile, is knowing that you were able to spend every Holiday this past year with Bella Doll...that is amazing, memories that you will forever hold. <br />Now...on to Ang....Tim & Ang...wow...you compliment each other SO.WELL.WOW. When one can't stand, the other can...you are each others saftey net. What you share/display is magical. Once again I stand in awe of the affection and 'crazy-mad-in-love' feeling Tim, that you show your beautiful bride. What a beautiful entry you so eloquently painted for us about Ang. <br />I pray with a burning heart that you be wrapped in the Lord's arms when you, Ang & Ali begin your return home. I was sitting @ St. Joes today (waiting for a physician's signature on an order for one of our patients) and while waiting, I looked out through the window and had a view of the entire East Orange- the hills, Orange Hill restaurant- and was so overwhelmed and emotional thinking about your return home. We are COMMUNITY and here in CA lies your family & friends who are waiting for you with baited breath. You are so very loved and are not alone. My family & I continue to pray for you...we will never stop...so for days when you are down and have no engery to pray...we got your back!!!!<br />with all our love from Tustin to Romania,<br />Nicole B & Familynicole bacanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-257209375427878024.post-60677226600474779292010-10-22T21:48:30.794-07:002010-10-22T21:48:30.794-07:00I think that's why my marriage works, I believ...I think that's why my marriage works, I believe my husband is stronger, more capable, powerful and amazing than he thinks he is, and he feels the same way about me, and you are right, I feel that way about you and Ang, and you feel that way about me. (Nice one!) Perhaps that's what life is all about.. finding those people that believe in you more than you believe in yourself, sticking with them, and amazing yourself in the process. All this mutual inspiration is neat, huh? Thanks Bella!! One little baby changing the world.. <br />Emily<br />Ft Lauderale, FLEmilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08710118552915270569noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-257209375427878024.post-52829504583692953502010-10-22T21:43:45.140-07:002010-10-22T21:43:45.140-07:00Wow, I thought I had finally pulled myself togethe...Wow, I thought I had finally pulled myself together, until I saw your socks at Bella's memorial. Tim, you and Ang never cease to amaze me in all the ways you honor Bella. She truly is so lucky to have you as her parents, as you were to have her as your daughter. Your courage and your faith inspires me. Bella's life truly makes me want to live a better one. She makes me never take my baby girl for granted a single day. Thanks for sharing her with all of us... even though I never met your precious angel, I miss her and love her, and wanted to let you and your family know that you are in our prayers EACH AND EVERY single night.<br />Rachel from CA (friend of the Edling family)Brian Glennhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16170066650398240164noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-257209375427878024.post-65754641959798129672010-10-22T18:57:31.472-07:002010-10-22T18:57:31.472-07:00Thank you for posting those beautiful pictures. Al...Thank you for posting those beautiful pictures. Although I watched the live broadcast of the memorial, the quality wasn't that great so I couldn't really see faces. Those pictures brought it all back for me with better clarity. :0) <br /><br />Thank you for continuing to post daily. Even when you are so exhausted from the day. It really completes my day to be able to "catch up" with your family.<br /><br />I'm so glad to hear you guys had a great day with the Edlings and the Pops. That picnic sounded like it was just the kind of day that each of your families needed. I love the picture of the music circle. That is awesome!! Looks like you all had so much fun. I'm so sorry to hear about baby Elle. We definitely need to give her all our strength to help her get thru this difficult time. <br /><br />Lots of hope and love to your family as you leave beautiful MN and come back to beautiful CA. I'm sure MN will miss you as much and you will miss MN. You all have so many people who love you. <br /><br />Lots of Love,<br />Amber, Craig, Malorie(2 1/2), and Liam(9mos.)<br />The McLaughlin Family<br />Moreno Valley, CAThe McLaughlinshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13131393449323517990noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-257209375427878024.post-71200397069202079102010-10-22T18:29:10.104-07:002010-10-22T18:29:10.104-07:00Hi Tim, Angelique and Ali-
You are all truly amaz...Hi Tim, Angelique and Ali-<br /><br />You are all truly amazing. Bella was (is) amazing. THANK YOU for sharing your lives with all of us! Continuing to pray for you especially as you leave MN.<br /><br />This afternoon, Jackson (my 6-year old) was 'making the rounds' and asking about all the kids we follow with EB (Jonah, Tripp, Sam, Bella). He got to Bella and said "Mom, how is she?" Wow - that was a tough one. I hadn't found the right moment to tell him about Bella but obviously I had to be truthful. He was so sad but then he realized that Bella is no longer hurting. He said "Mom, she was really brave."<br /><br />Yes, she was!<br /><br />Team A loves you from TX!<br />LauraLaura Ahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06701139472899714172noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-257209375427878024.post-43997284271810423862010-10-22T18:12:08.691-07:002010-10-22T18:12:08.691-07:00I read each night/morning and I am so thankful you...I read each night/morning and I am so thankful you continue to share your lives. I'm grateful you shared Bella's service with us online. I really enjoyed writing to Bella before and I miss that! :) I am praying for your family and for your transition from here on out!Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09066492943723194153noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-257209375427878024.post-21684930579317832702010-10-22T16:18:24.633-07:002010-10-22T16:18:24.633-07:00What a gorgeous memorial! Ang - everything that T...What a gorgeous memorial! Ang - everything that Tim said about you and more! Your speaking brought Bella to life as a little girl who had a family who adored her because she was a child. I really came a bit late to her journey and it was wonderful to hear you speak about your daughter. Tim - excellent job sharing with all of us in such an honest and generous way. Yep, you seem to like to be on stage and you do it justice! Keep it up. The world needs more people who have the ability to evolve, be humble AND be outspoken with the faith and love of God.<br /><br />Congratulations to both of you for the way you held it together to honor Bella. I admire you. You held the service for everyone else to enjoy and learn about Bella. Bravo!!<br /><br />Thanks for posting these photos because the video doesn't show the love, peace and beauty of your faces. The setting was unbelievable!! It took my breath away.<br /><br />As you begin the rest of your life, I wish you well. <br />Kim from CaliforniaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-257209375427878024.post-62015718103495598592010-10-22T15:29:14.916-07:002010-10-22T15:29:14.916-07:00Wow...what a special and beautiful memorial for yo...Wow...what a special and beautiful memorial for your beloved daughter. I read it in awe, of the wonderful parents Bella was blessed with, then the flood gates broke open when I saw the picture of the three of you hugging. That hurt my soul, to see the three of you embracing to somewhat ease the pain of losing a sister, daughter. What a special bond you have......<br />Also, how very sweet of you to speak of your wife ...what can I say... May God bless you!!<br /><br />Its been over 15 min. since I read your post and saw the pictures, and here Im still weeping... your daughter has trully impacted my life and I praise God she had parents who desired to share their angel with us. You have a beautiful way of capturing souls with such magicial words and ways of expressing yourself. Keep it up... God will continue being Glorified and you will be blessed in return.<br /><br />I pray for your family that you will continue to go hand in hand with the many memories you had with Bella. I ache for the many you will leave behind on Sunday or whenever... they will trully miss your wonderful family. YOu three are amazing....just like Bella!!<br /><br /><br />Continue in His Grip,<br />Heidi CarricoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-257209375427878024.post-65294036608830060542010-10-22T14:48:55.312-07:002010-10-22T14:48:55.312-07:00"Bella, Bella, your name means beauty..."..."Bella, Bella, your name means beauty..." Guess what I've been humming all day long? I suppose I've got Bella on the brain.<br /><br />I must say that Ang is one blessed woman to have a husband who realizes what a gift he has in his wife. And what a shining example you both are of what it means to be united in the covenant of marriage.<br /><br />Thinking of you all as you prepare to head back home. I hate goodbyes. I prefer "hasta luego" which seems much less final than "adios". <br /><br />Wishing you all a good weekend, whatever it may hold.<br /><br />Blessings and affection to all,<br /><br />Susan<br />A friend in NCAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-257209375427878024.post-83543979347038117092010-10-22T13:02:39.866-07:002010-10-22T13:02:39.866-07:00Dear Tim,
I just got done watching the service.
...Dear Tim,<br /><br />I just got done watching the service. <br /><br /> I am one of those faithfuls that you sometimes mention...always checking the blog first thing in the morning. I even come back throughout the day as needed for inspiration. You never let me down. YOU Tim, YOU are such an inspiration to me. Before being hooked on Bella and your blog, I was making an earnest effort to improve myself, my life and live each day to it's fullest. Lately, I've approached some obstacles that I'm having a hard time getting past. Know what? I wish I could ask Tim. He'd know. He'd have some insights. He'd be able to help me. He'd say things to me to help me work through these challenges. He says things in a way that I can relate to. This is who you've become. <br /><br />Anyway, I continue to take notes and really ingest what you say because it is so helpful and so obvious when it comes from you.<br /><br />Thank you so much for the effort you continue to put into this blog. <br /><br />Take care of yourself and your family. And again, thank you so much for sharing. You have no idea how YOU are affecting people's lives. <br /><br />Suze<br /><br />p.s. I'll be on the look out for the Tim-style Dear Abbey advice column. ;-) Oh, how I'd love to pick your brain.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-257209375427878024.post-50691175418993054212010-10-22T10:30:09.483-07:002010-10-22T10:30:09.483-07:00Dear Ringgold Family,
Another beautiful blog entry...Dear Ringgold Family,<br />Another beautiful blog entry, thank you Tim. Angelique is truly amazing, your words describing her are lovely. You two have seen so much since the AZ days on Virginia Ave... seems like forever ago right? You are both wonderful, strong spirits and have brought that energy to being wonderful, strong parents. Take care as you transition to back home and know that there is much love surrounding you.<br />Love,<br />Michael and Robin Settothesettoshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16040996859641850286noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-257209375427878024.post-618171147954174102010-10-22T10:16:57.603-07:002010-10-22T10:16:57.603-07:00Good Morning Ringgolds,
Thank you for sharing Bel...Good Morning Ringgolds,<br /><br />Thank you for sharing Bella's beautiful service and breathtaking pictures. My goodness, it truly took my breath away. Tim, your writings continue to educate me, thank you. What you wrote about Angelique was awesome. You two are such remarkable individuals and even better as a team. I am going to make sure to print out your blog from yesterday to share with grandma joanie this afternoon. We are sending you love and prayers and thinking of you all. Like i have said before, we are dedicated to Bella and her/your teachings of life. I wore some fabulous socks yesterday and have decided to join Nicole's suggestion. Thinking of Bella warms my heart, I can't thank you all enough. <br /><br />Peace and love,<br /><br />The Davidson'sAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-257209375427878024.post-30880143233777464372010-10-22T08:25:00.882-07:002010-10-22T08:25:00.882-07:00I just watched the video of the service what a bea...I just watched the video of the service what a beautiful space not only the garden but the people who were in it. I am so proud of you and Ang for your strength and courage throughout this process, and even though it will be hard to leave the family you have met there you have family here waiting for you with open arms. Let me know what I can do when you get home whether it be with the service or whatever. We love you VickiAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-257209375427878024.post-16941040551614414832010-10-22T08:24:10.980-07:002010-10-22T08:24:10.980-07:00You look a bit like the Pied Piper out there with ...You look a bit like the Pied Piper out there with all the children...!! Lovely, lovely pictures...thank you for sharing! Just want you to know that I set up an ongoing donation to P.U.C.K....in Bella's memory. It isn't much, but Bella has inspired me to do more than that. AND YOU...You didn't just light a fire Tim, I've been IGNITED...I've been looking for something I could volunteer for, and be passionate about. FOUND IT! Can't just sit back and watch anymore...blessings to you all...on your bittersweet journey home, and in all the days that follow, may the wind be at your back, and the sun on your face.donnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17415671160713121008noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-257209375427878024.post-74934359714999442642010-10-22T08:07:15.487-07:002010-10-22T08:07:15.487-07:00I feel as if I don't have the words to say. I ...I feel as if I don't have the words to say. I don't post often. I read every day. I pray for you ALL every day. I feel so close to all these EB families (Daylon, Elle, Tripp, Jonah and Sam is how I found out about all these precious children.) and I try and tell people the stories often. I guess I am writting today because I want you to know that I am STILL praying for your family. I am so, so sorry for your loss of Bella.jandswoodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00116851658159828588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-257209375427878024.post-85523136155557338922010-10-22T08:05:29.483-07:002010-10-22T08:05:29.483-07:00What beautiful pictures! The last picture of Ali i...What beautiful pictures! The last picture of Ali is absolutely stunning! I am printing it to put up at my desk :)<br />I am happy to hear how much fun you had yesterday. Love the drum circle pictures! Glad your sister is there with you guys as Grandma and nanny head back home. I know I have said this many times, but we can't wait for you guys to return home; we talk about it almost every single night :)<br />The words you wrote about Ang were spot on; she is one of the most amazing people I have ever met and I feel so PROUD to call her our friend. I almost feel bad that all the bloggers can't meet her in person and experience her energy. You did great Ang, I was in complete awe of you the entire time, not only at the service but through the entire journey... you truly are the Rock. We love you guys so much and are continuing to pray and surround you in love from home.<br />Love you always,<br />The Vanderbooms<br />P.S. Every night when I put Everlee to sleep we stand in her room with all her butterflies and talk about Bella and to Bella. I tell her about her friend and how wonderful her big sister Ali is. It might sound silly, but I feel like she LOVES those butterflies in her room so much for a reason...and that is that they represent Bella.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-257209375427878024.post-78602055048713353142010-10-22T07:38:35.247-07:002010-10-22T07:38:35.247-07:00I WANT TO THANK YOU FOR POSTING DAILEY!!! I KNOW I...I WANT TO THANK YOU FOR POSTING DAILEY!!! I KNOW I'M BEING SELFISH BUT I MISS BELLA SO SO MUCH.I FELT LIKE SOMEONE PUNCHED ME IN THE STOMACH WHEN I READ YOUR POST THAT VERY SAD TUESDAY MORNING. BUT I FIND PEACE IN YOUR WORDS.YOU BRING ME SO MUCH COMFORT.IT SEEMS WE SHOULD BE DOING THAT FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.AND I HOPE WITH ALL THE THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS WE ARE IN A WAY.IT AMAZES ME HOW MUCH THIS LITTLE ANGEL AFFECTED ME AND MY LIFE.SHE TAUGHT ME HOW TO BE A BETTER PERSON.THANK YOU AGAIN!!!!!!!!!LOTS OF LOVE,AMANDA FROM TNAMANDAhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13036999511278560259noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-257209375427878024.post-2409049436688860402010-10-22T06:38:21.284-07:002010-10-22T06:38:21.284-07:00If you plan the southern route home, the door here...If you plan the southern route home, the door here is open for you to rest yourselves overnight instead of a hotel/motel. It's probably about a 7 hour drive straight down I-35. Would love to have you. The memorial was so beautiful. <br />Love and hugs.<br />TerriAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-257209375427878024.post-89235055940736176552010-10-22T06:33:17.164-07:002010-10-22T06:33:17.164-07:00all 4 of you guys are so strong. your family is on...all 4 of you guys are so strong. your family is one to admire. i love those socksjennhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13005675614304082784noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-257209375427878024.post-8523283111154424902010-10-22T06:16:00.912-07:002010-10-22T06:16:00.912-07:00Tim and Angelique - you were both amazingly strong...Tim and Angelique - you were both amazingly strong during the service. Bella would (and is) extremely proud of you. It was an amazing tribute for an amazing little girl.<br /><br />As far as EB awareness week next week, I plan on rolling out some of the beginnings of EB awareness at my NICU. I've found a lot of great stuff already (thanks to the links on your blog), and I will be in contact with Tanya as well. My manager also said that we will use this new information about EB skin care, and look at our current micro preemie skin care guidelines to see if there's anything we can add to them. The skin of a micro preemie is probably as fragile as EB skin. <br /><br />Bella will forever be an inspiration. Not just at my job, but in life as well!<br /><br />Jess<br />Chicago, ILJessicahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17151874030864510371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-257209375427878024.post-57687586334352152282010-10-22T06:07:49.941-07:002010-10-22T06:07:49.941-07:00Honestly it is no wonder Bella was so strong. The ...Honestly it is no wonder Bella was so strong. The more I learn about the two of you and watch you handle all of this with so much strength and honesty, she got it from you guys! That was a wonderful tribute to your beautiful wife. You guys are a great family. Thank you for sharing your life with me every day. <br />Memory-TexasMemoryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06238644291623631218noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-257209375427878024.post-30394490292792201712010-10-22T06:03:34.890-07:002010-10-22T06:03:34.890-07:00Thank you again for keep writing the blog. I can&#...Thank you again for keep writing the blog. I can't read it without my Kleenex next to me. Every single picture is beautiful and your words for Angelique so sweet and full of love. You are great parents and also a great couple. I'm so happy Tracy is there and I'm sure she will be happy to take Ali shopping to the mall of Americas or for a run!<br />Praying for all the EB community.<br />Lots of love,<br />Mariana,UKAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-257209375427878024.post-37934071982608940052010-10-22T05:54:47.497-07:002010-10-22T05:54:47.497-07:00Tim - I found your blog rather by accident, months...Tim - I found your blog rather by accident, months ago. I immediately became drawn in by Bella's story and have followed you daily. While you have been in MN, your blog has been the first thing I have looked at online each day. Through Bella's BMT journy, I looked forward to each daily update so I could cheer for your little angel.<br /><br />This is the perfect time to say... I have been in awe of Angelique forever. She is one tough woman, and your descriptions today fit with everything that I assumed was true about her. How I wish you lived in Milwaukee so I could meet Ang and force her to be my friend! <br /><br />Your family is inspiring, and the grace with which you have handled Bella's passing is unmatched by anything I have ever seen. I am sending tons of love to your family, and look forward to continuing to follow your life story!<br /><br />TracyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-257209375427878024.post-7875327211182183422010-10-22T05:28:09.624-07:002010-10-22T05:28:09.624-07:00At least you know you're coming home to anothe...At least you know you're coming home to another community that loves and missed you.<br />Should you need anything to help make that transition, let us know. I'm also volunteering to do the picture taking at your CA service if you'd like....and ANYTHING else you can think of.<br />Love from home.<br />(By the way, I thinksharing the road trip home with your lovely ladies would be great for you...)Sarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12487216236220020325noreply@blogger.com